Showing posts with label multicultural wedding ideas. Show all posts
Showing posts with label multicultural wedding ideas. Show all posts

Thursday, February 9, 2012

{DIY Round Up} Valentine's Day Projects and Printables

Valentine's Day is right around the corner and let's be honest, we all love love. You remember in grade school, making boxes covered in felt hearts and feathers hoping for a flood of those flimsy V-day cards; you know, the ones you agonized over buying with your mom who thought any ol' card would do. Yeah those. I slowly opened each one, savoring every crooked signature. Sigh. Third Grade.

Photo courtesty of Let's Talk About This

Some say V-Day is a Hallmark holiday but many embrace it and enjoy the pomp and circumstance around that little winged Cupid.  I say bring it, the more love and good feelings in the world, the better.

Here at de Lovely Affair, we focus on practical planning and a DIY Round Up is the perfect way to get you prepared for the big 2-1-4 (Feb 14). We've gathered the best, easiest DIY projects/printables for your perusing pleasure. Remember, don't hate the V-Day, just spread the love to your neighbor, co-worker, spouse, children cause we all need a reminder that we are special.
  
18 Free Printable Valentine's Day Cards: Sweet sentiments to make someone's day! These PDF lovelies were created in a simple postcard style - use a heavier weight 8.5" x 11" cardstock, print and let the fun begin.



You can cut out the conversation bubbles or leave as a postcard.  Write a love note on the back and leave around the house for your sweetie; in the sock drawer, in the bathroom, send him on a hunt that leads right to you. One reader suggested making garland out of smaller printouts. There are so many ways these can be used to spice up your V-Day!

Click HERE for the 18 free Valentine's Day Cards in PDF form. Credit and thanks goes to Thank You Cards Shop Blog for letting us share.

Paper Heart Ornaments This great project from Paper. Scissors. Superheroes. shows you how to turn old magazine pages or lovely scrapbook paper into these super sweet Valentine’s Day heart ornaments. (They work equally well for other important days too.)


Grab a visually delightful publication, some thread or Baker’s Twine, and a few handy adornments, beads, baubles, your favorite charms. Here are the PDF directions, which were originally published in Paper Crafts Magazine

Sweets for Your Sweet: These picture perfect cupcakes are sure to please the sweet tooth in everyone! I mean, who doesn't love a cupcake right...what a thoughtful way to say I love you.

Photo: Courtesy of Hello Naomi

We found this easy to follow, super quick recipe over on Brides.com. You'll need regular cupcake ingredients plus some extras, like fondant and gel dye, both available at your local craft store.

Goodie Bag. Once your oven is off and cupcakes complete, store your yummies in this cute DIY treat bag, brought to us by Twig and Thistle. Grab some kraft treat bags and use their printable template. And don’t forget the milk and adorable paper straws!

 Photo courtesy of Twig and Thistle

Hope you enjoy our Valentine's Day DIY Round Up and use these ideas to bring joy to your life. At the end of the day, it is all about love; giving, receiving, loving who you are, what you do and the people around you. If you like what we do, please show us some FACEBOOK love by LIKING our page and FOLLOW us on TWITTER. Thanks, you are the best....and remember....

 Photo courtesy of Cool, Cute, Clever, Crazy
...is always a nice thing to say.

Go with the good stuff!
 

Monday, January 30, 2012

12 Tips for Planning Your Multi-Cultural Wedding

Planning a wedding is stressful; planning a wedding to incorporate different cultures, languages, perhaps even ethnicities or religions is like super double stressful. Making sure that all parties are respectfully acknowledged and honored - as they should be - on top of figuring our how to make this day about you is one heck of a feat....and honestly, totally worth it.


With that in mind, here are twelve great tips for planning a multicultural wedding, originally posted over at Here Comes the Guide. We've just spiced it up a little!

1. Family Chat - Communicate openly with both sides of the family early in the process to discuss which traditions they would like to incorporate.


2. Your Day - Make it clear that this is your wedding but that you also want to make your families’ customs a part of your day. If they’re not 100% happy with your choices, don’t sweat it. It is hard when money becomes involved but it you remember Tip #1, then Tip #2 should be no problem.


3. Appropriate Location - Pick a ceremony site that will accommodate your wedding, and know their rules. If you want to get married in a religious center like a church or synagogue, you may need to take classes or follow special guidelines before you can marry there. If you want to sure special decorations or lighting, remember to ask before putting down a deposit.

Photo Credit: Here Comes for Guide

4. Third Party - Consider getting pre-marital counseling. It may be the differences that first attracted you to each other, but for a multicultural marriage to stand the test of time important topics like faith, finances, and childrearing should be discussed in detail before you walk down the aisle. Talking over the big stuff with counselors can clarify expectations and help you avoid trouble down the line.

5. Cultural Education - Educate each of your families on what would be considered inapropriate behavior in the other’s social world. A wedding is not the place for cultural faux pas.

Photo Credit: Favor Ideas
6. Create Other Options - Don’t feel you have to put all your cultural eggs in one basket. If your backgrounds present too sharp a contrast to be equally represented during the ceremony, there are other opportunities to give each family its due. For example, reserve the ceremony for the bride’s heritage and turn the rehearsal dinner into a celebration of the groom’s. It’s the perfect occasion to explore the African custom of “Tasting the Spices,” or introduce guests to o-shaku, the Japanese sake pouring ritual that reaffirms the bond between friends. If you or your groom is South Asian, why not host a mehndi party for your bachelorette gathering? All the female relatives will enjoy expressing their inner artist through decorative henna designs.


7. Personalize Your Ceremony - Some officiants of differing religions are open to conducting the ceremony jointly and can help you design one that honors both ethnic and religious traditions. Just make sure the ceremony doesn’t try to incorporate too much and run too long.


Photo Credit: Sedona Bride
8. Provide Helpful Hints - Help your guests understand any special wedding rituals. If you’re including unusual elements in your wedding, such as the Mexican custom of wrapping the couple in a lasso, provide brief explanations of their significance in your wedding program so that your guests can appreciate their symbolism. Alternatively, your officiant can clue everyone in to the tradition as well.

9. Double-Duty - Take advantage of ethnic traditions that do double-duty. Did you know that the breaking of a wine glass after the “I dos” is not only a Jewish custom, but an Italian one as well? And the canopy covering an Indian ceremony, called a mandap, looks just like a souped-up Jewish chuppa!

10. Festive Food - Get inventive with the food. Fusion cuisine is super popular nowadays, so make a cutting-edge gourmet statement while demonstrating how well two cultures can blend.

Photo Credit: Here Comes the Guide

11. Two Steppin' - Schedule dance classes for family members before the big day. Not only is this a fun ice-breaker, but teaching both sides of the family a few key steps will make them more likely to enjoy participating.

                                                     Photo Credit: Twin Lens Images

12. It's ALL You - Honoring your families’ cultures is great, but don’t forget to showcase your own personalities. Play your favorite songs and teach Cousin Habib and Tia Elena how to rock the house. Or personalize the wedding favors—chocolates from Ghirardelli Square where you had your first date.

Most important, have fun and enjoy the process. Make it a de Lovely affair!

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